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Because of You

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About the song

A song about missing the presence that helped you know yourself—and hearing your name again.

In the stormy water
I called out your name

From Because of You

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Complete lyrics

“Because of You”

(Verse)
I was swimming in the shadows
lost In a sea of pain
Every stroke felt like a burden
Every tear drop felt like rain

(Bridge)
In the stormy water
I called out your name
But I heard was silence
and I wondered who to blame

(chorus)
But once, there was a time I grew
to face the world because of you 
and now, I know I always knew

I was good because of you

but it felt clear 
that you werent here 
and once upon a time I knew,
who I was because of you

(Interlude)

(Verse)
In the ashes, beuty
I found a glimpse of hope
A gentle whisper in the silence
A hand to help me cope

(Bridge)
With every step I felt you near
Like sunshine after rain
reaching through the choppy waters
I heard you call my name

(chorus)
But once, there was a time I grew
to face the world because of you 
and now, I know I always knew

I was good because of you

but it felt clear 
that you werent here 
and once upon a time I knew,
who I was because of you

who I was because of you
who I was because of you
who I was because of you

(segue)
In every tear, in every storm
you were there to see me through
you gave me courage to rise again
to find the strength I never knew

now I stand with faith renewed
my heart forever changed
because in the darkest storms
you called out my name. 

(1/2 chorus)
But once, there was a time I grew
to face the world because of you 
and now, I know I always knew

I was good because of you

(Breakdown)
In every tear, and every storm
you were there to see me through
You gave me courage to rise again
to find the strngth I never knew
and once upon a time I knew,
who I was because of you

who I was because of you
who I was because of you

and once upon a time I knew,
who I was because of you

The heart of the song

We can miss someone and also miss who we were beside them. Some people, and some experiences of faith, become part of how we know ourselves. Their presence helps us stand a little straighter. When it feels absent, the loss reaches into our sense of who we are.

“Because of You” sings from that place. The voice is moving through water, carrying pain, calling a name, and hearing silence.

The silence in the storm

The repeated “who I was because of you” carries memory and uncertainty together. The singer remembers courage, goodness, and a way of facing life that now feels difficult to reach.

The “you” remains open enough for different listeners to bring different stories. It may be heard as God, a person, or a presence whose meaning touches both. The song’s own movement gives faith a clear place, without requiring us to settle every part of that address.

A hand among the ashes

Later, the verse finds beauty in the ashes and a hand that helps the voice cope. Hope returns gently. The waters remain in the song, but the singer begins to hear their name. There is no need to pretend the earlier pain has washed away.

A Christian listener may hear Isaiah 61:3 beside the ashes, and the biblical language of being called by name beside the renewed sense of belonging. Those echoes can accompany the song’s longing without becoming an explanation for every silence a person has endured.

Hope can remember the storm

The ending speaks of courage and renewed faith while the chorus still remembers absence. Hope can carry a history. We do not need to edit the storm out of the story to welcome the light that follows.

Bring your own memories to the song without forcing them into a neat answer. If it becomes a prayer, speak honestly. If someone comes to mind, treat that relationship with care. Notice the people who helped you find courage, and make time for someone still struggling to find theirs.

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